Community is not just about being together, it’s about being there for each other, lifting one another up, and creating a shared sense of purpose.
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SIP DIP & STRATEGISE

Join us poolside at the iconic La Valencia Hotel for a refreshing mid-year reset with fellow wedding vendors. As we dip our toes in the water and sip on summer cocktails, we’ll open our laptops, share strategies, and set clear goals for the rest of 2025. It's the perfect blend of productivity and relaxation—complete with great networking, delicious poolside bites, and a vibrant, inspiring atmosphere. Let’s reset, reconnect, and recharge together

AUGUST 5th 2025

This is your last chance to slow down and connect before the busy season kicks off! Our third Café Crawl is the perfect opportunity to recharge, share ideas, and build relationships with fellow professionals in a relaxed, supportive environment.

Whether you’re looking to collaborate, find inspiration, or simply enjoy great conversations with like-minded individuals, this gathering will leave you feeling energized and ready to take on the months ahead. Don’t miss out on this perfect pre-season pause!

AUGUST 19TH 2025

SOLANA BEACH

As the wedding season ramps up, it’s easy to put yourself last. Plan ahead to prioritize your well-being this October! Join a community of wedding professionals for a day dedicated to self-care, restoration, and resetting your mind, body, and soul before the holiday season begins. You deserve to take this time for YOU.

OCTOBER 13TH 2025

NORTH COUNTY

Celebrating Success, Setting Intentions

Let’s wrap up the year in style with the last Café Crawl of the year! This special event is a celebration of everything we’ve accomplished together throughout the year and a toast to the connections and collaborations that made it all possible.

Join us for a day filled with gratitude, inspiration, and excitement for what’s to come. Whether you’ve been a part of every Café Crawl or are joining us for the first time, this is your moment to celebrate, reflect, and look ahead to the opportunities of the new year.

DECEMBER 15TH 2025

THE LAFAYETTE HOTEL

You can tell from the moment you experience a Refined event, that you are welcome, valued & encouraged. Suher’s events have connected me with so many wedding vendors who have helped me book countless weddings as well as with experienced industry professionals who are willing & open to share their expertise & wisdom.
— Ericka Barreto , Hartworks Floral

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